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The Poi Boys

Look at Dave soaring! He is quite a diver. The boys were very impressed today at the "cool"! Even little Ben jumped off the diving board today while Big Sam bagged some high dive jumps.
Look at Dave soaring! He is quite a diver. The boys were very impressed today at the “cool”! Even little Ben jumped off the diving board today while Big Sam bagged some high dive jumps.

We enjoyed a trip to the pool this afternoon before hitting Target for a backpack for Sam. My Salvation Army pick was a good one for the first week of school until we had a better fix on what he really needs. Dave and I swam a few laps, trading off hanging out with the kids. I really enjoy swimming for exercise since my feet are still not totally back to normal. Plus my concrete stair skiing incident last week is still hurting the tailbone! (In a side note – Ben loves scratchies before bed – THANKS MOM! – so he asks for it on his neck most nights. The other night he requested “On my tai-ow-bone, Mom.”) This morning was Sam’s weekly uke lesson with his sweet teacher Meylinn.

The Poi Boys: Here’s a movie of the boys playing in the back of the truck on the way over – Sam is playing on the uke Eddie Kamae gave him, while we are listening to one of Eddie’s CDs.  They love a book about growing taro and request taro frozen yogurt, so the name “poi boys” just came to me tonight 🙂

First days of school

It’s been an exciting and very full week around here with Dave back at work, me continuing to work against deadline pressure on a project that was slated to be done by now (plus other work piling in) and Sam starting school, which was the real focus of everyone’s attention. They start out gradually with a 2 hour KinderKamp orientation for kids and parents, then split the class up into two half days for half the class each. So Tues was KinderKamp, Wed was half day, and tomorrow (Fri) is the first full day for all 24 kids in the class.
Sam rolled into the routine very well, but just wonders how quickly all the kids will get with the program so there’s a lot less waiting around as activities roll one into the next. I spied on their recess time (with Ben – we went for a jog and came back to see what happens) and man there is a lot of sitting in lines for counting ducklings (they say “criss-cross applesauce” for everyone to sit down and cross legs with hands in lap). My friends told me this would be the case but I never guessed it would be so regimented. Of course we don’t want to lose anyone, but after 5 years of hiking with preschoolers it really seemed to be overkill. I would love to see me try to handle 24 kids one day, though!

Sam and the family band

A surgeonfish at Shark's Cove getting pretty close!

A surgeonfish at Shark's Cove getting pretty close!

We’ve been having a good time with Dave off work this week – fitting in short adventures while awaiting updates on the book galleys for me to go through. Dave has made dinners, put Ben down for nap, worked with Sam on the “big build” (Lego projects) and generally enjoyed catching up on man time with the boys. Today we went up to Shark’s Cove to celebrate the last day of leave and Sam starting school tomorrow. (!) As I snorkeled around, I was surprised at how oily the water seemed – like a lot of sunscreen or something was floating around. At times it cleared up, but then I’d hit another patch. I knew it was slack tide, so I thought perhaps it had something to do with the water hanging out in the tide pools and not getting refreshed. Dave went out to check the fish scene and came back with a funny look on his face after swimming around in the big cove part. He said to me “You’re a funny girl.” I said “Yeah?” thinking that’s not news. “You thought that was oily water?” “Yeah? Didn’t it look weird to you?” Dave goes “Did you notice changes in the water from warm to cool?” “Um. Yeah, I think so.” Turns out that oiliness was where warm water met cool water from the tide coming in (is this called a thermocline?). Very cool – glad to know it wasn’t anything IN the water!

The big boys have been enjoying jam time in the “studio” – the office. Sam calls out chords to Dave while he plays his guitar. Last night they played one of Sam’s new songs (Yucatan Waterwells) and then treated us to “Waitin’ on a Sunny Day” by Bruce Springsteen. What fun it is to see Dave and Sam playing, with Ben doing his loud scream-singing into a screwdriver microphone (or whatever else he can get his hands on).

Sam and the family band!

Sam and the family band!

Yucatan Waterwells

Sam composed a song this morning about water wells in the Yucatan (I think drawn from one of the BBC DVDs he watched with Daddy over the weekend). Sam says the ukulele chords to the song are F ///// C // Am ////// G7 ///. He’s thinking it would be cool if Pop Pop got an uke and he could play the song together with him over Skype 🙂 I took a video of it tonight and will try to compress/upload tomorrow. Both boys are sick – dripping noses, coughing, cranky. Dave and I are battling it hard as we are both working through our family vaca. I am really kinda grouchy about that – events have conspired such that we weren’t able to go anywhere or do anything, but I’m trying to be thankful that we can at least have some down time before Sam starts school next week. We’ll go holo holo around the island and get some hikes in. I have some camping time penciled in later in Aug (the boys are I are really hankering to space-a or camp!). Sam did his kindergarten assessment on Tues – I feel like it’s the official passing of the baton. “We” fared very well – after all, I was his coach for these first five years, so I was curious to see how Mom-style “freeschool” prepared him (or not – what would be on this mysterious assessment? Some random thing that kids in preschool learn but which I hadn’t thought to teach him?). I finally (after much wrangling) got my hands on a copy of the assessment after he took it so I could see what it entailed. You’d have thought I was asking for the strike coordinates of a missile launch. Sam told me later that in the first question the teacher asked him to count to ten, so he started in and kept on going. When he got to 72 “she made me stop” :0 Prayers going out to all our family and those struggling with far heavier things than sick kids and a rat-race couple weeks. I know we are blessed!

Java on the lava

Dave went out to get some coffees and breakfast wraps for us this morning before heading to North Beach on base for some snorkeling. It was good to finally get back in the sand after Dave being gone for a couple weeks, then a weekend of rain last weekend.

Dave went out to get some coffees and breakfast wraps for us this morning before heading to North Beach on base for some snorkeling. It was good to finally get back in the sand after Dave being gone for a couple weeks, then a weekend of rain last weekend.

It has been a wonderful, yet busy, couple weeks – I have been proofing the final galleys of a book I’ve helped edit (600 pages!) and several other projects came rolling in during this time as well. Some of them I was able to squeeze in (a new website for a podiatry office in WA), others had to be deferred to the weekend. Sam was in Vacation Bible School this past week as well, and on Tuesday he takes his kindergarten assessment, then starts school the following week. We’re squeezing in hikes and beach time wherever we can, but unfortunately he caught a good cold at VBS this week but that hasn’t slowed him down too much despite a fever. Daddy is on leave this week, but on call and has to go in one day so we’re not traveling anywhere, just enjoying every last day on the island before we move next year. We do plan on being in So Cal for Thanskgiving, and we’re looking forward to that!

Today is the Day!

Sam's first day at Vacation Bible School on base. They had over 120 kids and a waiting list! What a week - the staff all did a wonderful job, and I even got to volunteer on a couple days.
Sam’s first day at Vacation Bible School on base. They had over 120 kids and a waiting list! What a week – the staff all did a wonderful job, and I even got to volunteer on a couple days. Click this photo to hear one of our favorite VBS songs 🙂

A day of P – pillboxes, pizza, pool party

We love to do funny faces on the trail ever since we took a super hilarious picture on Green Mt in Washington last year.

We love to do funny faces on the trail ever since we took a super hilarious picture on Green Mt in Washington last year.

Today started out a bit dreary, so we played a board game and spruced up the house while I took care of some work correspondence. Then we headed out to go on a hike – Sam really wanted to be out in nature (vs Sea Life Park) and I did, too. Ben’s vote was Sea Life Park, but he had fun anyway. 🙂 The boys had a really great time on the trail despite the heat – we all broke a big sweat but the breezes were great. Lots of people on the trail – must be in some guide book now – who enjoyed seeing Ben in particular hiking on his own. He likes to carry my hiking pole, and brandishes it like a cattle prod. I invite people to pass us, but they usually defer or scuttle right by. No wonder! A little jab from Ben is great encouragement 🙂 Kidding – mostly! So he barreled all the way to the top in only a half hour – about the same pace as leisurely adults. I was really amazed. We enjoyed snacks and came back down, with Ben refusing (absolutely resolute in this) to hold hands or allow me to hold his harness. We fought all the way down about it. He wanted to “hike wike SAM!” which means hands free, on his own terms. Poor guy – so determined but yet this was not the trail for that. Click above for some really funny pictures of “freshening up” after the trail…

It’s always handy to have a really cool mom around

Here's my friend Andrea, out with us for an adventure!

Here's my friend Andrea, out with us for an adventure!

Andrea! You are soooo much fun! Your picture is up here on my blog so my family will know who you are when your name creeps up in future posts of our adventures. It was super handy to have a smart cookie like you hop into the truck and fix our CD playing problem while I ran to the bathroom again before our adventure. Then, as we started the trail run/bike/stroller push and I got a SECOND flat it was nice to have a buddy help hold that dumb little valve tight into the pump to try pushing some air into the tire :0

We took Andrea (whose kids are on the mainland with their grandparents for a few weeks) on one of our adventures as pit bull bait and general pit crew. We took her to a trail run we love, but one for which we really feel having another grown-up around would be wise. Literally minutes after we started on the trail, the front tire of the stroller blew out again! I had just swapped it out that morning before Andrea jumped into the truck and figured out why the boys’ favorite CD wasn’t playing. I checked the wall before putting a new tube in…nothing. I have no idea why it blew out again! Darn! Not wanting to take the time to put a new tube in only to have it blow again, I decided to push the stroller with a flat tire in the front thinking how bad could it really be? Bad. Bad bad idea. That is a workout and a half! It doesn’t bounce over roots and rocks well (you smash into them vs over them). And it is slow and heavy. Plus I had water and snacks and rain jackets down below and Big Ben in his seat. Sam did great on the trail ride – he enjoyed having a booster engine (Andrea) any time he petered out just before the top of the hill. And Andrea is so cute that she didn’t even sweat, she laughed the whole time and chatted along as if we were strolling through Waikiki. Meanwhile I’m dying but trying to talk! Finally I gave her the stroller toward the end. My shoulders were pretty beat later as I hunkered over my computer to edit the book which is nearing the final stages of production.

Ben says “Did Wondi wun? Did she wun on da twail?” What’s next, Rondi? 🙂

wind tasting and the preschool paradox

Ben and Sam at the tide pools after church today. A bit chilly for our very island-acclimated selves :) Ben does well in this wetsuit Gramma got him for his birthday.
Ben and Sam at the tide pools after church today. A bit chilly for our very island-acclimated selves 🙂 Ben does well in this wetsuit Gramma got him for his birthday.

I wonder what a wind tasting would be like? This was a recent texting-typo, and I ended up liking it very much. It made me think of all the different hikes with different smells, how the ironwood needles smell earthy and piney on our fish-pond run or Mariner’s Ridge hike, how the eucalyptus is so pungent over at Ualaka’a, how a rain shower makes the air taste rich… The boys and I have really been hankering to travel for a while now, despite the 50,000 miles we logged last year. Those expeditions lasted us a couple months of quelled wanderlust, but we’ve been registered for a space-a trip for about 4 months now, hoping for a good opportunity to jet off. Certain circumstances have kept us on-island (Dave’s travel, aging doggie, my work, desire not to get caught on the mainland with no way back due to competing with other space-a travelers much higher on the list because the spouse is traveling with them, etc.). But we keep looking for a good opportunity and excuse 🙂

I don’t know if I’ve mentioned it before, but there are two very good books I’ve read this year worth considering for your book club or personal reading:
Richard Louv’s Last Child in the Woods is an excellent overview of how this generation’s children came to have “nature-deficit disorder” as Louv describes it. There are very logical reasons for this development, but there are also plenty of opportunities to actively combat it, and help other families take the leap to join you. Excellent and quick read (maybe two weeks of before-bed reading).
Neufeld and Mate’s Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers is written by a Canadian team – a clinical psychologist specializing in child development and his physician/author friend. Neufeld and Mate present a compelling treatise on how our peer-oriented culture fosters a wide range of social and developmental ills, from bullying to suicide and depression. Our society is obsessive about creating opportunities for our preschoolers to socialize – we’re all under this pressure to make sure our kids can get along, make friends and thusly do well in school, fit in, etc. But what does the evidence say? Is there another side to this coin. Indeed, there is. In fact, the largest study of children age preschool through kindergarten found that kids with the most experience in daycare/preschool also tended to exhibit more aggressive tendencies, problem behaviors, etc. Yes, high quality daycare and preschool can help kids from less engaged households fare better in school than their peers from similar households. Somehow this message gets distorted, though, such that we all feel compelled to put our kids in daycare or preschool to be sure they get every advantage in the world. I challenge every thinking parent to read both sides of the literature. This is one absolutely outstanding book: compassionate, contemporary and compelling.
On a personal note, I have been hiking with various groups – friends from our base nearby and friends we’ve met on a space-a flight. What a joy it is to have buddies who cherish the outdoors and the friendships forged on the trail. My kids and I are lucky to have a wide range of friends, some of whom we are doubly blessed to share our faith with on the trail. I’m also getting a chance to see the fruits of homeschooling while out hiking with these friends…yes, we’re STILL on the fence about that. Lots of good on both sides of that coin 🙂 Stay tuned. School starts in two weeks – where will Sam end up? Kainalu or kitchen??? ;0

Happy Independence Day, America!

We enjoyed Kailua fireworks from the balcony of our friends' home. When I asked Sam what it took for our country to come to fruition on the way over, he said "Well, Pangea had to split up first." Click photo for full size.

We enjoyed Kailua fireworks from the balcony of our friends' home. When I asked Sam what it took for our country to come to fruition on the way over, he said "Well, Pangea had to split up first." Click photo for full size.

Rock concert pool party

Sam planned a rock concert and pool party with his friends for today. We had a great time with our buddies!

Sam planned a rock concert and pool party with his friends for today. We had a great time with our buddies!

Sam came up with the idea to host a “band” (“Mom, we’re going to have a band on Saturday. It’s going to start at 9:30 in the morning (turned out to be 11 after his uke lesson) and we’re going to bring out all our instruments and drums in the wagon and invite our friends for a concert. There will be 11 songs from The Band’s The Last Waltz.” And so it did…he selected the food and snacks and the schedule. What a great job he did, and how fortunate are we that our friends were able to come and join us. Click the above photo for pictures.

Old Pali Rd pals

The tribe marching up Old Pali Rd to the Lookout - 8 kids and 3 moms!

The tribe marching up Old Pali Rd to the Lookout - 8 kids and 3 moms!

What a fun hike we had today with old pals and new. We got to see our friends Kristi and her kids (Joel, Rebekah and Caleb) who we met on a space-a trip last fall and have stayed in touch with since. And she brought along Sarah and her two kids, Ellen and Joey. We also had a young guy named Crispin with us who is friends with Kristi’s crew. They all did great hiking through some slick mud then up the Old Pali Rd and its tricky ladder contraption, and finally through stiff wind to the Lookout. We posed for a picture in the “snack cave” – a spot where people would sit for a spell on their way down the Old Pali before the tunnels were built. Then we high-tailed it to less windy ground for more snacks. Just as we were getting comfortable, a rock bounced down the cliff and landed about 10 ft from us! So we moved on again to a spot way down the Old Pali and almost back to the trailhead where we could eat in peace, try to start a fire rubbing sticks together, and tell jokes that Miss Alli would never get (what’s lighter than air that you can’t catch – I guessed a “fart” but now I don’t remember the real answer, Joel!). This is such a great group of kids. Sam told me a couple times “Mom, they’re all homeschooled, like me!” They are so mature, self confident, intelligent and just plain nice people. I’m so thankful that Kristi offered to lend a hand with Ben in the terminal 10 months ago and that we’ve been blessed to remain friends since. Man, they’re making me rethink the Kindergarten decision again!  Aloha, friends! Well done, kids. You did a great job today. I bet you’re sleeping well already ;0

Pool crashers :)

Sam jumping off the high dive - I think this is the second of 17 or more jumps. He came up with a huge smile after his first jump and said "I LUUUUUV the high dive!"

Sam jumping off the high dive - I think this is the second of 17 or more jumps. He came up with a huge smile after his first jump and said "I LUUUUUV the high dive!"

Now I know for sure he’s is Dave’s son – he loves the high dive! And he just saw a diving board for the first time yesterday! He does gather a lot of data by asking questions before undertaking a big adventure, a true mommy trait. We were at our friends’ pool where the kids are allowed to use the high dive if they pass the swim test, so Sam decided to give it a go as soon as he saw Anneliese jump off. Sam says “Now I have a license to jump off Waimea Rock when Daddy is there with me!” What a guy!

Thanks so much for introducing us to your pool, Anneliese and Caleigh! Now we have another fun place to go when Daddy is in Guam ;0 Can you see the climbing wall next to the pool? What a great idea – if you fall off you just land in the water. I loved it. I did the high dive again, too, and Ben jumped off the low dive (with a little help). It will be some time before he’s in love with it like Sam :0

Sam earns his swim card!

Sam passed his swim test today so he was able to take his first jump off a diving board, too!

Sam passed his swim test today so he was able to take his first jump off a diving board, too! Video avail. by clicking on photo.

Proud of Sam would be a major understatement! Team Krug threw a few fistpumps in the air as we left the pool today… From being completely comfortable in the ocean yet nervous in a pool, Sam has developed into a very natural monk seal 😉 With Dad as his constant and gentle guiding hand, he has never had a swim lesson. He’s developed some natural strokes based on what we see our ocean friends do (such as “turtle”) and he’s picked up the crawl fairly recently. He’s so comfortable under water that it takes a lot of  exhorting to get him to do anything along the surface :0 So it was with some trepidation that I’ve contemplated taking him over for the swim test at the base pool…for several reasons: 1) he’s never seen a pool this big (50 m is monstrous), 2) I wasn’t sure he’d stick with the task at hand (25 m swim and 2 minute tread). But with his friends all in their second or third years of swim lessons, and some of them passing the swim test so they can do the water slide and diving board, etc., it was time to get with the program and let Sam take a stab at it.

So, after church today we went to check out the pool, talk to the lifeguards, and assess the scope of the test. Then we went to the playground, had lunch, and came back well prepared (and hot enough to want to jump in!).  A lifeguard was free to do the test so away we went. He did the 25 m swim great – was a little nervous and not breathing calmly like normal, and forgot to kick for much of the length. Then he did the 2 min tread, which I was most nervous about as he loves to swim under the water. I can’t get him to keep his head up long enough to say anything to him! But he did it! Man was I proud! After all that he got a wrist band to show that he passed and we got to jump in the water. Ben was very happy about that – he was fussing in my ear during Sam’s entire test wanting to jump in, too. Oy. After a bit they opened the diving board. This was the next big deal of the day. His friends taking swim lessons have been around these but we have been jumping off lava shelves and stuff, so the diving board sticking way out over the water was something to be reckoned with. (He’d never even seen one before, so yesterday I showed him one on YouTube as a sneak preview.) Sam asked a bunch of questions, was nervous, walked down the board, said he didn’t want to do, came back. Did that several times. We talked, had a team huddle, decided to jump off the side of the pool a couple times, and then he decided to just do it. It was time (Ben was really getting mad now, having been in the pool then had to get out to go to the big kid area with Sam but not able to get back in over there.) Once he jumped, he loved it, as I knew he would. I well remember my first diving board experience and it was awful – killed a love of the water until I was over 30 and decided I just needed to teach myself to swim again and then got SCUBA certified. (In my case I remember the Y pool, indoors, loud, chlorine smell, white caps on the water it seemed so forboding, and a large lady named Ursula yelling from the pool to JUMP!)

My most sincere hope is that Sam has fond memories of his first days in a big pool and continues his love of the water. I am really floored by his composure and maturity handling the swim test, then overcoming nervousness about the board. There were no other kids even in the deep end (which gets to 18 ft!) when he was on the board thinking about jumping. Oh, and there were 25 Canadian frogmen doing helicopter pilot drownproofing in this vast pool. And there’s a huge contraption for lowering a makeshift helicopter into the deep end to help pilots figure out how to get out of a crashed helicopter. So you’ve got all this intense military stuff going on in the pool – a tad intimidating I thought. On our way out we talked to one of the “frogmen” – they were probably helicopter pilots but thinking about frogmen was super cool – anway I asked them if they were nervous before their test and they were like “Heck yeah! I don’t much like getting belted into a contraption then spun upside down!” Sam noted that even big guys do things that make them nervous, too. And he was a great coach when mom decided to jump the high dive!!!!

I put together clips of his day, including a movie of his first jump. Enjoy 🙂

“Aloha, sorry I can’t get to my owner just now…”

Enjoying a hike with our buddies before they move. (Click for more.)

Enjoying a hike with our buddies before they move. (Click for more.)

I’ve had such a couple funny nights with the boys that tonight I managed to lose my phone again! This is twice in two weeks!!! We were out biking around in the park when Dave called from Guam, I talked to him for a bit, and somehow the phone disappeared after I hung up. Oy! I wish I had a locator or some way to trace it. I guess there are ways to do that but you have to subscribe to them before you lose it. I keep calling the phone but I guess it hasn’t been picked up yet. Anyone have any ideas? It’s a cheap $40 phone thankfully. On the bright side, we had a really fun hike this morning with our buddies…pictures and notes to be found through the photo above.

Last night on our way home from Farmer’s Market, Ben wanted to walk, then it turned into a jog and he never stopped, except to check out the scooting chickens, the dogs woofing, a kid on a skateboard who lost the board into a drainage thing when he tried to jump it up on the curb (which Sam found hilarious!), the random egg nestled into grass on the side of the road (was it Chuck-the-Chicken-Duck’s egg? will it hatch?)…our street has many interesting things to see and enjoy if you have the right frame of mind. As we made our way home dodging signposts, sharp mailboxes which have settled into the ground askew, and fire hydrants (which Ben wanted to sing into, LOUDLY), families would peer out kitchen windows or smile off their front porches. I felt like the crazy-parade rolling through town and was thankful we’re all good runners in case someone didn’t find us quite so funny! So Ben jogged all the way home, over a mile, and Sam got a good 2-mile jog in since he jogged over with me on the way there. It’s amazing how much fun the most random escapades can end up being. The mental images of our family that I have still crack me up. Tonight as we sat at Kalapawai having dessert (after I’d realized I had lost my phone!) Sam was making farting noises into his popsicle and Ben was screeching in laughter at that while I had tears rolling down my cheeks and could help but laugh with them. Thankfully their laughs are infectious and people seem to enjoy us having a good time. I did apologize last night as we rolled by a restaurant rather loudly – a younger lady and another couple was having wine out in the outdoor area and we had lost total situational awareness and were high-fiving each other rather exuberantly. So I said “I’m sorry! We were just so thrilled to get across the street!” (It may sound overwrought but here’s what we had going on – 4 lanes of traffic with me carrying Ben like a 40lb football as he yelled that he wanted to “RUN!” while pushing the stroller and minding Sam’s whereabouts, all while keeping Ben’s slippers still on him! I was sure that he had kicked them off as he often does and they’d be stranded out in traffic as he wanted to keep running…whew. The lady with the wine was like “Oh no! It’s fine – love the sound of children!” I am thankful for them, and for like-minded folks. Mind you, we don’t always run wild, but the last couple days have been pretty funny…wish I could change my phone’s voicemail greeting to the subject of this post!