Not only did a week off for Dave end today, he flew to Guam! The boys and I unpacked from a night away last night at a beach cottage (above), I got back to work, and tried to grill up some chicken. (Our neighbor came over to check it out and ended up taking some home. It just had a weird texture but he said it was fine! Tasted good…) Pictures of our time off going holo holo around the island can be found via the photo left/above.

After road-tripping around the Ewa plain again today taking care of car-repair errands, we sneaked out to the beach tonight for a quick swim. Sam is practicing hand-stands here 🙂
Dave’s clutch has blown on the GTI so we took it to the dealer for diagnostics. Their estimate was $2500, so we quickly called around and found a place to do it for $1216. Wow! It is an authorized VW and Audi repair shop called Wrench Werks in Waikiki. So this morning was pretty busy going back over to the dealer across the island, then caravaning down to Waikiki to take the car to the cheaper shop. We had fun, though, thinking of it as a family road trip all over Ewa plain. At the dealer Dave and I were tempted by how sweet the new GTI looks…even tartan seats (if they had the Skene tartan on there I’d be buying it on the spot!). The guy who showed us a couple cars (just to kill time while waiting for Dave) was pointing out the entertainment package assuming any mom in her right mind would want one for sure. Tonight as we drove home from the beach the boys were so funny – made me realize how much you miss if you occupy them with stuff other than interactions between each other, their environment (i.e. looking out the window and observing stuff) and the parents. As I told the guy at the dealership, “I am the entertainment package!” He enjoyed that one 🙂 Truthfully we all take turns entertaining each other – Sam with his uke and hilarious faces of late, Ben imitating the faces, and then the typical skirmishes over territory in the backseat. There’s no shortage of fun 🙂
We thought we were getting together with dear friends for dinner since Dave is on leave this week and has time to cook for a gathering. So when our friends and their teenage boys arrived with looks of mischief in their eyes, we started to wonder! After dinner the clues began – Angel and April had collaborated to hide all the fixins for a birthday (cake, frosting, decorations for cake, candles, matches, everything!) all over the house and even out into the garden. Their clues were so imaginative that they really had me going a few times! Eventually I found everything and Sam enjoyed frosting the cake April had made. Then came the fiah fiah – we put 39 candles on and got a nice little bonfire going! Here we are lit by the candlelight 🙂 Thank you, dear friends, for the surprise!
Menu (since Mom asked 🙂 ):
Salmon, steak, Caesar salad with papaya and grilled red peppers, asparagus and potato salad. And here’s the recipe for Dave’s homemade potato salad which was just amazing (all amounts approx. and ingredients may be tweaked to suit your taste):

Didn't take much arm-twisting to get Dave to follow the boys down a random pig trail this morning to see Sam do some rappelling 🙂
Upon crossing a little drainage ditch and into the trail, Dave goes “Huh, this really isn’t much of a trail, is it. How far to the rappelling tree?” We had a great time, the thorns which penetrated our slippahs (as we were really not dressed for pig-trailing it – was a last-minute diversion) didn’t strike any feet, and the ants didn’t sting anyone (I didn’t warn Dave about the ants – kinda forgot about them). On the way back down the trail, we came across some interesting trash, but it was Dave’s comments which really made me laugh. We found a couple used preg tests – Dave goes “I wonder how that worked out for her.” (I checked – both negative) Then upon finding an empty Trojan packet he says “I guess they decided to try again.”
Every now and then, when the kids are poking at each other, sniping, getting underfoot and generally being annoying to each other and me, I say “you’re in my asteroid belt – someone’s gonna get hit by an asteroid!” because that’s how I feel and it makes the boys laugh. I guess it may not make much sense, but it makes the point well enough. We all laugh and recognize just how annoying we’re being to each other and my space is cleared out – to an arm’s length at least – so that I can move around again somewhat more freely 🙂 I’ve also tried “My electrons are not interested in bonding with yours right now!” when I need some space since Sam is interesed in atoms (Dad is a nuke). After clearing my space enough to get a skirt on (wow!) we all trekked off to Bishop Museum to see what was shakin’ over there. Sam finally got a chance to really use the remotely operated vehicle (ROV) pictured above – it’s a small camera that you guide with a joystick and watch the video feed on a screen in front of you. Since Sam likes BBC documentaries about ocean life, this was a really cool thing to use. Usually it’s swarmed with kids but this time we managed to carve out some time with it undisturbed. I really enjoyed having a minute to use it as well. Ben enjoyed seeing the volcano again, and I brushed up on some history about Captain Cook’s last days on Kauai. Good day… During prayers at bedtime I’ve been asking the boys what they’re thankful for. I will start mentioning what they say when it’s interesting or different from “Gwamma and Wichud” (Ben) – tonight it was Daddy (also a frequent mention on “the list”) for his great romping time. Mommy never makes the list. Dave says that’s because mommy is ubiquitous – they can’t even conceive of being thankful for mommy because that would open the door to the possibility of a world without mommy. Hmmm…thanks for that insight 🙂
We’ve had a couple funny days’ worth of Sam saying “Look at mah faaaace!” You never know what it will look like. Yesterday we set out on a random ridge hike since our usual buddies were not available for a hike (swim lessons) and we don’t like to drag our friends out on weird adventures. We ended up exploring several pig trails which initially looked promising but I tell you those pigs just do not tend to go high. They stay low and forage so their trails didn’t take us anywhere very interesting as far as a usual hike destination is concerned. They did, however, take us to an escarpment that Sam very much enjoyed climbing with the help of several vines. He said “I’m rappelling down just like Uncle Tom on El Capitan!” as he swung down. He went up and down a couple times with Ben watching from below. You just never know where a pig trail will take you, but the boys are always able to come up with fun. The other funny thing for me was finding a perfectly pristine trash bag toward the end of the hike – perfect for stowing the trash we’d picked up along the way. How funny to find a trash bag among the trash! And in great condition?! I do “tiny ghostie” for the boys (blow up trash bag with air and chase boys around house) so they were amused to find tiny ghostie out for a hike as well. THEN as if that weren’t enough we got back in the truck and drove off but within a block found two boys out riding bikes and I decided to ask about other trails in the area. Sure enough, these two knew of one just behind one of their homes and they offered to take us! Thinking we were just going to the trailhead we piled out without our gear (water, snacks, etc.) and followed them. When we reached the steep, lava-rock trailhead they said “You wanna go?!” with such true-hiker enthusiasm that we had to say “yes!” and followed them up. The two guys, 10 and 11, were super nice and really helped out a few times with Ben when the going got tricky. One of the guys goes to Sam’s school and it turns out I know the mom of the other guy. We were able to reach “King’s Chair” and see the gorgeous views of Kailua, then headed back down with their excellent guidance. The shot above was taken after a jog in Lanikai. We cooled off with a swim before playground time. We are blessed!

Butterflyfish are among the more common fish you’ll see while out snorkeling. Behind these guys are the ubiquitous convict tang. We also get to see moorish idols frequently (striped with long pennant from dorsal fin). So I wasn’t exactly surprised to find these cuties, but what made this little trip special is the sun popped out only briefly while I was snorkeling, which helps bring contrast to the fish and makes the pictures come out better. I decided to catch a movie of them hanging out and am glad I did – when I came home to study up on these particular butterflyfish, I found that they are considered relatively scarce here and are thought to be more common on Kauai. They eat live coral polyps and do not survive in captivity. They are also thought to mate for life. I am sure glad they decided to make Kaneohe Bay their home! Dave saw a bunch of juvenile parrotfishes yesterday. They are also pretty neat to learn about – they eat live coral and the teeth in their throats grind it up during digestion. The tiny particles are then deposited from their anus, forming a large portion of our sand in the process. Also, they are very deep sleepers at night and are known to secrete a mucous around their entire bodies, some biologists think to keep eels from smelling a tasty meal. The parrotfish come in a wide array of colors and designs, and they change their markings during maturation, making these fish “an ichthyologist’s nightmare” according to our excellent guidebook (Hoover’s Hawaii’s Fishes). “Anyone who can accurately identify them underwater is a master…” Good job, Dave! They are among my favorite to spot, too.

We did the Maunawili Ditch trail today and had a great time, Sam on bike and Ben and I hoofing it through dry stream beds, horse droppings, and lots of leaves. The weather was great and the trail was dry. Time for funny faces now 🙂
Sam also had me make a documentary about trail biking. He had me film him introducing what we were doing, then he introduced himself, Ben and me and even gave our ages (said I was 27! yeah!) then took took off on the trail. It’s sure fun to watch him progress on his bike. I could barely keep up with him this time over about 4 miles on the trail. It’s happy hour time here (i.e. 3-5 when boys are up to no good!). Aloha 🙂

We snorkeled at Shark's Cove, then jumped Waimea Rock, then Cholo's for lunch! What could be better? Doing all that with your cousin and his awesome wife!
Fantastic time getting to do some snorkeling in good conditions, then perfect timing for a rock jump (high tide, relatively calm water), followed by a celebratory margarita at one of our favorite haunts. Thanks for a fun day, guys! (More pictures by clicking the photo above.)

How to pay tribute to the fallen when your own vet is away from home? Find a memorial, tell the story, pay tribute with your time and a token. I took the boys on a run this morning so I could tell Sam the story of Iwo Jima before arriving at the memorial. He shared his analogies between the battle for that tiny island and the courage a lobster had defending her home against an invader, something he’d seen on a BBC DVD over the weekend. As we arrived at the memorial, another party was gathering to pay tribute to lost Marines, members of 2/3. You may think the symbolism here is over the top or contrived, but it’s the truth. Just as I was kneeling to lay the plumerias we’d brought, tears came to my eyes unbidden as I remembered all the fallen over the many years our country has come to the aid of others. A light rain began to fall and washed away my tears, as well as the Jim Beam the guys had sprinkled from their flask over the bricks laid in memory of their buddies. I stood and tried to tell them how thankful we are for their sacrifice and that we continue to pray for them each night. I stumbled quite a bit as I tried to get these words out. The little group was gracious and thankful for our sentiments, then Sam said “Mom, why were you whimpering?” and everyone laughed. While I don’t feel like we do much at all to serve our country, in little things one can teach big lessons…such as remembering to honor the flag by putting it up each morning and taking it down each dusk. Sam carries the flag portion and Ben handles the pole. They are careful not to let it touch the ground. Kids ask the same questions over and over, and each time I explain why we do these things it offers a chance to reinforce and remind them in a tangible way what honor and respect means. We learn courage from some of our adventures, and from the stories we read at night, such as St. Francis, who had the courage to love the poor and sick. This morning Ben offered Sam and I a chance to show love even when we were annoyed…we took a deep breath in (gathering up God’s love) and then we both blew it out right onto Ben’s head, and you know what? As Ben’s little hairs stood on end in our “wind”, he stopped fussing and screeching, and smiled up at us 🙂 We’re not always able to act on the lessons we know well, but I pray that each day we have the grace to try. And if Sam ever decides to join the military, I know he will do that with a full understanding of the sacrifices made by those who came before, and the meaning of service. I’ll close with a thank you to Dave, for always serving without complaint despite the many sacrifices you make unbeknownst to most. You are a great example for us. We love you!

Ben's birthday campout - really just an excuse to go out and indulge in enjoying my boys nonstop for a couple days. 🙂
We had such a wonderful time together – lots of laughs, peace and quiet, the sounds of birds dancing in our ears, clouds drifting by high above the trees, and cool breezes at night. Enjoy the pictures and little vignettes from our trip by clicking the photo above 🙂 Funny side note from last night – just before bed Sam had to use the bathroom. He was so deliriously tired that we heard him talking from the bathroom loudly “We got there TWO HOURS EARLY!” then “We were there at EIGHT and setup by NINE!” or something to that effect. Then “I SEE YOU IN THERE!” So I went back to peek – he was yelling at his reflection in the toilet paper holder – the little mirror ball thing at the end! Tooooo funny!
Thanks to great friends who have kids about the same ages as ours, we were able to enjoy a relaxed beach party to kick off the weekend. The party continues on Monday and Tuesday when I take the boys camping 🙂
And TODAY is my brother’s birthday – I am so happy that Ben and Doug are connected by a birthday that is only 1 day apart. I hope you are having a great day, Dougo! I love you very much! Talk to you in a bit 🙂 Yer sis…