These tide pools emerge in the winter when the sand is relocated by the north swells. It's a tad chillier for swimming, but when you're jumping in and out, working hard, you hardly notice it in the warm afternoon sun.

Dave took some really great shots of these tide pools. We really love this place and were happy to see the pools reemerge in the low tide. Sam and I are looking forward to our sunrise hike tomorrow morning with three buddies of Sam’s. We’ll be up early at 0530, and on top of a little pu’u (hill) by 6:30am ready for 7:11 sunrise. Mercury gets up at 5:42am, so maybe we’ll see that planet on our walk up. I have blinking headlamps for boys, glow sticks, coffee for moms and doughnut holes for the top 🙂 I also have whistles for the way down to wake the rest of the base up – ha ha!

As I was getting my coffee carafe unpacked, I noticed it is a 34 oz carafe. So I asked Sam casually, “How many 8 oz cups of coffee will we have if this is a 34 oz carafe?” He paced a bit with his 25 ft rope in hand (he’s been working on knots and stuff with the rope, featured in a couple of the shots linked from the above picture).  “Four and a quarter, Mom.” He had the answer in 16 seconds (I was still working on the second part of the answer as he said it!). Wow. He is one cool kid. But his latest report card says he’s DP (developing proficiency) using objects or fingers to add and subtract single digit whole numbers. A burden I carry around with me every day is unraveling this fundamental disconnect between who he is at home, and what the teacher says he is at school. Am I doing the right thing for Sam’s education? Should I be doing more? Is he getting enough stimulation and challenge outside the classroom to make up for what he’s not getting in class? Is observing the other kids in class and learning to work within a system, however unchallenging, a viable form of learning at this stage? It is only Kindergarten, after all, I tell myself most days. So while I grapple with this question, I continue to invest my time and energy in nurturing my kids as best I can outside the classroom and volunteer my time and energy to help refine programs, policies, strategies to help other kids reach their potential at school. Maybe one day I’ll be a science tutor to contribute more to the local education system.

A lifeguard found this guy on his back, on his tower ramp. Way up a steep embankment. We have no idea how he ended up there, but the lifeguard was able to carry him back down to the beach and he seemed just fine once he got in the water. How incredible! He was about 2 1/2 ft long from nose to tail. Gorgeous, healthy guy as far as I can tell.

Ben and I were supposed to go to the Y again today – getting back into a Friday yoga routine for me. But last week we were foiled in our attempt by a honu (turtle) we spotted just offshore as we jogged down the beach, followed by watching two surfers. Today – Friday – we had plans to go to the Y again, but as we finished our jog we met a really neat lady walking a dog and got to chatting about Caffrey (the lady happens to be with Lab Rescue in PA – a group I’d contacted a year ago to find out about a rescue chapter here on O’ahu!). As we parted ways we noticed the lifeguard carrying a turtle down to the water! Wow! How exciting! But it was totally odd – he’d found the large turtle on its back and way up on his tower ramp, at least 10 ft up a very steep embankment the turtle could never have climbed. Was it put there by someone? Or did it truly get there somehow? In any case, the turtle seemed just fine once it hit water. But the lifeguard was totally perplexed. Almost in shock, saying over and over again it was the weirdest thing he’d ever seen. Me too! But I was glad to grab a picture of this rascally honu before he swam away. Thankful to miss the Y again today for chance meetings like this. No wonder I am addicted to jogging the beach with Ben in the early morning. It’s especially nice that mom and Richard are here now, so I can hook up with mom for coffee (and hard boiled eggs for Ben – his favorite! see Mom’s blog for pictures of him in pursuit of the perfect egg – http://clanskene.blogspot.com/2011/01/buying-hard-boiled-egg-at-2-12-years.html).

The kids ran about half the hike uphill, then almost all the way down hill! They were so funny, barreling downhill with people parting the way so they could plow through. Tamara and I were trying to keep up, then all of a sudden one of the little ones would sit right down in the middle of the small road and play with rocks in the crevices of the asphalt! No one got hurt, miraculously!

So I thought it would be fun to take all the kids (not just the preschooler hui) on a hike this afternoon to go find some whales breaching. The whales come down here to the warm waters to calve, then they return to Alaska to feed when the waters cool in winter. So we went down to Makapu’u Lighthouse, which is a 1.5 mile (one-way) paved trail to  a lookout about 500 ft in elevation. It is usually fairly boring for kids so I don’t recommend it, but when you’re looking for whales, it has a lot of good vantage points. We met Tamara and two of her kids plus a neighbor boy, making our party 5 boys 7 yrs old or younger, plus Tamara and me, and Mom and Richard. Well, we had a surprise – it was also Camden’s fourth birthday today! SO we had to celebrate. Sam helped Camden reach the top of the lookout first so he got to be King of the Mountain 🙂 So proud of Camden – he ran much of the way up to the top and Sam just helped make sure he was safe and found his way while I was busy making sure Ben didn’t run off the trail somehow. On the way down (after snacks) the boys were all running – the whole way down. Tamara and I quickly realized there was no stopping them, and they were loving – just loving – being able to run down. (Didn’t mama always say “Don’t run down hills!”?) So we let them, but we were hurling cautions the whole time while I was trying my best to snap pictures with the camera pointed behind me as I raced to keep up with the little ones. Many of the pictures were blurry, but this gives you an idea of the fun. Ben told Tamara “I will NEVER stop!” (she had been yelling to Camden to stop because he was so far ahead she couldn’t see him around the bends). We did stop for food on the way home – Sweet Home Waimanalo has the best bok choy slaw on the planet and their kalua pig is awesome (beer braised!). The kids love their Peanut Butter smoothies. And such nice people there. Dave enjoyed his dinner at home – we brought him some and regaled him with our conquest of Mokapu’u Lighthouse. What fun those boys are, even if they are totally wild and ill-advised much of the time. Oh – there was a virtual riot over an inchworm we found on the way down. I will upload the video here – the boys took turns with it then decided the birthday boy should get to “wear” the inchworm. Well, the worm didn’t want to leave Joshua (Tamara’s older boy) and Tamara was a tad skittish about actually touching said worm (“It looks rather ferocious for an inchworm!”). Finally the worm was transferred to Camden, who promptly screeched as the worm reared its big head to look at him! The screeches were contagious, as captured by mom on her iPhone video 🙂 inchworm-riot Thanks for all the fun! It’s only Tuesday…

Surfing video 1 Surfing video 2

Sam slept in an hour late this morning, so he got over 12 hours of sleep last night! Wow! So I got Ben fed and ready, printed out my tardy letter (which explains my policy is to not wake children before third grade because sleep is just as essential as proper nutrition and exercise to neural development) and waited for Sam to come out. He did, all dressed and rather smiley. It was worth the wait! So we grabbed a can of Ensure Plus, a banana and off we went to school on bike and foot. It is very relaxing to be late. There is no mad panic to save 42 seconds enroute. From school Ben and I decided to jog down the beach even though I had plans to finally return to the Y for yoga after a long hiatus. Well…our beach sojourn ended up being way too fun so I had to cancel the Y, but it was well worth it. This is one of the reasons I like being uncommitted most mornings. You just never know where the next surprise blessing will come from. Thanks to Dave working so hard, I can give the boys that freedom while they’re small to explore and roam, picking up friends and adventures wherever we go.

Here’s what we saw while we were out which delayed our timetable to get to the Y…from an email to my brother with the video above attached:

It started out a good morning – we were greeted by a honu head popping out of the water as I took my running shoes off to jog down the beach with Ben. Then when we got halfway between Castles and Kalama we saw these two guys…They were reaaally working these tiny waves for all they were worth. Ben and I watched for a while and clapped. The guy shown surfing was all smiles when he came up and saw us watching. We gave a thumbs-up and clapped and he waved, then dove back in the water, then jumped up on his short board and rode it back out through a wave briefly. They seemed to enjoy our tiny audience. Everyone else was walking by not even looking out to see them. The waves were that insignificant, but the show they put on was like a mini pipeline. Although my movies don’t show it, they often rode further on the waves after doing a spin on the crest. They really pumped the waves, didn’t they?!

Ben and Ryder reunited for "bucket heads!"

The last three days have been a series of daily disasters – but I didn’t realize the humor until this morning when the third disaster struck. Then it became funny. It all started with a blue plastic bottle at the commissary. Sam thought it looked pretty interesting. He’d been badgering me throughout the store about paper plates, yogurt covered raisins, more applesauce… So I told him, as I often do, if you can read it we can buy it. So I sent him back to the Kefir bottle. He brought back a blueberry probiotic smoothie. Since he’d read it, we bought it. This morning in our school morning madness, he wanted the smoothie. So he got it out and after I’d prepped cereal for the boys I went to shake it up for  him and pour it. All of a sudden there was smoothie coming out everywhere – landing on Sam’s hair, his shirt, the floor. All over! In shock (because I hadn’t had any coffee yet!) I chose to laugh instead of get irritated. Then Dave chimed in from the couch where he was putting his shoes on – “I really think you should get control of yourself. It’s not funny.” Awww. But laughing was better than the alternative, which is sheer frustration at having to now clean up smoothie mess, change clothes all on top of an already busy morning. I thought it was a little funny seeing smoothie come flying out and land all over Sam – probiotic, too, like what was going to grow in his hair? Is it like megafertilizer?

It all turned out ok after Sam changed his shirt and we moved on with the morning. I found out later today my kitchen clock was 11 minutes slow. So hopefully tomorrow when I get 11 minutes back in my morning all will come together smoothly…here’s hoping!

So great to have this tradition with my brother 🙂 As you can see, we had a great time with our family and friends! Click picture for more.

The Hogmanay tradition is Scotch – it’s the week between Christmas and New Year’s marked by fire, fireworks, parties, shenanigans, family and friends. Having a bonfire at Bellows is a really great way to let the kids roam with all kinds of balls to play catch as the grownups catch up with each other while grilling up various meats (no veggies last night – oops!) and participating in silly games that came to mind (my mind, that is!). The guys competed for a “King of the Camp” lei I brought, cooked “Hawaiian haggis” over the fire (SPAM rocks – “Shockingly good” as Doug says!), and Portuguese sausage. It was so much fun I didn’t want to wash the smell of fire out of my hair!

Here’s my invite, just in case I need some ideas for next year ;0 :

Hey gang!
Coordinates for our bonfire adventure: (21.375426, -157.707925)

4 ft high fire allowed!

We have:

60 lbs of wood

two coconuts to crack open (insides undetermined so I have can of coconut milk as well)

lots of SPAM and Portuguese sausage

some munchies

two boxes of wine – white and red

water jug

machete (never host a party without one)

football, soccer balls

On site:

mini mart

gas station (?)

bathrooms

table

fire pit

Please bring:

your best beast on a stick (there will be a competition)

something to drink out of (boot? hat?)

musical instrument

rain shelter if you have one and no big deal to set up

misc teenage boys (very helpful for many purposes, and they tend to have a lot of fun chopping up wood)

secret service agent

FAQs:

Can we get on base if we are not military?

– Yes, please send driver’s lic #, make/model of car, full name and I will put you on list.

Do we have to stay overnight?

– No 🙂

Do we have to pee in the woods?
– No, although the bathroom is further away this year so there will be races to the bathroom because it sounds fun for another party game ;0

Can you actually do any damage with a marshmallow snowball?
– Yes, if several are wadded up hard enough and a man throws it at his wife. (I have personal experience.)

Are headlamps an accessory?

– Yes, certainly. I say one dresses up any outfit, but my sister-in-law might have an alternative viewpoint.

Can we bring friends?

– Yes, we can have up to 15 tents and 75 friends!

Click on picture for a slide show of the fun this morning 🙂 Aloha!

Santa has been here! Merry Christmas to all, and to all a good night!